Should I contact her?

[Lonely Room]

Hi MHL, thank you again.

That's exactly what I was planning to do, just a short chat over Messenger to ask her how she is and to update her about my mum's health. Hopefully this will open the door for further communication, until I'm (and she) ready for a face-to-face.

What troubles me is that this goes against what the books say. Am I going to blow it all?

Regards.