Certainly poses food for thought then ken.........
Maybe I should throw something completely left field to her!!!!!!!!
Seriously though, W knows that it's nothing serious about me or the kids (w saw kids in the morning at school), so why was she sooooooo worried????
I think I will say something like, when we were a partnership I fully supported her and her career, and will look to help where I can, however that will not always be possible now.
I will also say it was regarding the kids, as S12 doesn't want to go to W's again. W asked him yesterday and he said that he didn't want to, W replied with, thanks a lot S12.......... That's trying to make him feel guilty, he is 12!!!!!! Plus I may also mention about W not coming bowling and D14 was waiting for her, so not fair on her.
I really want to ask her why she was so worried though!
I don't know what to do TBH........
The information I have from D14 Being more friendly And being so worried about what I wanted to talk to her about
I believe that she is hoping that I chase her, (so she is not the one taking the risk or being venerable), but as per the information on perusing and distancing in MLC, if I do initiate something, W will most likely distance again.
BUT someone has to knock the first domino over surely, and W doesn't show her emotions or position until the other has (i.e. me). This has always been the case, but would like it to change, but can not control that. I can influence it though I suppose, just by NOT pursuing!! Thus making the distance'r change stance and pursue!
I know, I know.........
No pursuing............... W has to be the one to bring up reconciliation, and a cunning plan..................
Don't think that is going to happen, D hear I come...................
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more