I am afraid that the moment I stop working toward the goal of getting my W to counseling sans OM, then I will have quit (which I don't accept well).
Maybe short term goals will work better for ya ?
Small things, that are measureable on your own ?
Long term goals, especially relationship focused ones right now , can take the focus off of you , and when you don't see movement on them immediatly, your frustration levels go through the ceiling....
They are okay to have, just keep them in check....
