Not that it really matters much, it has been well documented through the Archives
I first read it in one of Snodderly's threads somewhere.
What I found with my speech was, that there was something pulling her in a different direction...
She wasn't sure yet what it was ( and I had no clue at the time )but something had sparked her interest and she felt tied to the relationship at the time.
It is more blame shifting, and not accepting responsibility for her own actions yet again though...
She is still looking toward you to "end" things so that she can be the victim ....
Maintains her innocent status in life that way.
Is she serious about the divorce ?
Probably...
Will she act on that ?
Who the hell knows....
For now, they are just words. Watch the actions and see if they follow the words. If they get close to the words ? Then see where you are at then...
Watch for the anger from her to pick up again. That is a sure sign that something is about to happen.
Usually, that anger propels them away from you even further.
