Met what what I am now calling our "family therapist" today - formerly our marriage counselor.

Made some great strides in figuring out how to tell S7, and also how to ease him into spending time in a different house. She was firmly in my camp that we can't rush it - H wants to be at 3 nights a week within the month - not happening!

That said, he got the house 4 blocks away, so yay!

Had a really good day today - I'm sure I'll feel down this evening, as the late night and early morning are hard, but feeling better than I have in weeks.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11