"Helpful friends and family"... yes... they are so interested in seeing the WAS happy, they often validate the negativity, adding and embellishing, so that the WAS feels better... the results of that...? not good much...
How did she get the divorce papers drawn up so "quick"? Did she have a L in pocket ready to do the paperwork? Did she use "joint" money or her money? That doesn't really matter, just wondering as many people don't easily come up with the money for a L...
As far as that goes, you need time to review the docs and should be retaining your own L. You W should respect that. You'll have a deadline to respond and all that great legal stuff. It will cost, but you don't have to just agree to a D on her terms...
