^^^^^ Very sound advice

This will be a tough road no doubt.

I remember a MWD video where she talks about some of the same things above. How the person who had the A will need to mourn the end of that R.

Now, how and for how long he does so, will be a big part in how this works or does not work.

I strongly suggest you both get into MC to discuss a lot of the things Bworl mentioned.

Setting and agreeing to the boudaries and 'rules' you both decide on may be much easier in MC rather than on your own.

Like with life, there are no guarantees. But you can work to do things to give yourself the best chance success.

Good luck.

BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.