Here is more........she had $16,000 worth of plastic surgery done on April 29......5 weeks before she left....boob lift, boob job and tummy tuck.... We rented a hospital bed for her recovery...I slept on the floor next to her for 10 days....my birthday was May 28....we had a small party...she gave me 8 presents...next day May 29th was our 9th wedding anniversary .....went out to a great lunch with my mother....took pictures and went to the movies..... Came home and talked about our big plans for our 10th anniversary....she told me how much see loved me etc.....no love making because of the surgery...LOL!
Anyway...she left me 5 days later....it was all completely planned. she actually signed the divorce and order of protection before my b-day and our anniversary on May 17th.
Who does this kind of thing.....? I am having a pretty good day today....some are better than others....but still....i still can't believe this is the women I married.....
I would love to hear from some women out there..
I biggest hurt now, since I have excepted that she is not coming back and I probably will never here from her again, anyway the biggest hurt is how she left me. She never once talked about separation or D.....I never had a chance....and believe me I would have anything and everything to save what I thought was a good M.
WHY DIDN'T SHE SIT ME DOWN AND TELL long before she left that she was not happy and TALK ????? Can anyone answer that?
And she took my three dogs too.
The pain is so great, but I am not alone....I have loads of friends and my mother near by... Keeping busy....camping every weekend in the mountains...going to the gym...talking on the phone with friends....etc......still my thoughts are never far....
