BM, we have had open discussions, it just doesn't happen in one long coversation. A little at a time. More baby steps. lol I don't want to know all the details, I don't want to relive those years anymore.
kat, we need to keep our move on!
I am making my first BIG purchase since all this began. It is a relief to know my credit rating is still good despite what H's looks like. He even warned me not to list him too because his is so rotten. I feel a twinge of sympathy (I want to fix it for him). He has asked for some help, but his pride still keeps him taking much. I'm learning.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
