This is my first post on here in months. Don't you feel special?
Glad to hear you are doing well. My W just moved out on Sunday. It is taking some getting used to, of course, and I miss my kids but I do not miss the constant negativity coming from her.
I somehow became one of those long-timers who was too afraid of being on my own and drawing healthy boundaries with my W. It's a recipe for failure.
However, as you pointed out -
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Limbo is the worst part of the whole deal.
Amen, brother!
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.......when this is all said and done, you will be a much happier, better person. I am proof.
Yep. Let it all go. The pain and confusion. Relax. When you do that - ta-da!!! - you find yourself, again.
Anyway, it's good to hear from you and glad you and the kids are doing well.
