To be honest...I think I try to meet his because I want us to come out shining on the other side because of our D and because I have loved him half of my life, BUT...
I have finally come to the realization in my head that I can't do it at any cost any more. I do have "needs" and they are just as important as his and my Ds. For along time I pretended that my needs did not matter and I am just not pretending anymore!!!
I really appreciate your insight Jack...it's helpful!~
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11
