I have done ALOT of DBing! I have really worked on myself and while I'm not completely there yet, I am 90% better than I was a year ago. I'm alot more secure in myself and I know that I do not need him to be HAPPY!!
I had actually got to the point that I was OK without him and I had finally detached and that's when he wanted to come back...ugh!!!!
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11