I think the general consensus around here is that blatant affairs, either EA's or PA's, are not to be tolerated. Nothing will happen as long as your H is still gaga over the OW.

It's your time now. Let him wander around in the dark all by himself.

"Don't let the door hit you in the a** on your way out, honey."

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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