Ahhh...as for the whole letter he sent.

It could have been closure. If he never sent another one, I'd let it die. Letting her off easy, with sweet words...who knows.

I KNOW it hurt you.

The proof however of his words? Would be in the pudding.

"I will always love you. I wish things could have been different. I will always be your friend."

THOSE were the words my wife used in her last letter to the OM.

words...wind...true?

She sleeps with me, tells me she loves me, and does.

At the time those words cut, but I kept my mouth closed against the pain. Time bore the truth out. Now? When she dreams of him, she yells at him to get out of our house. : )


Confused, he has lied to you...why do you only trust his words when they are directed at another person?



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet