Thanks for the reply! That is EXACTLY what I told him. I told him that I wanted him to go back to his sister's and be with the OW if he loved her so much. He said "I think we have a better shot of making this work than the other way around (meaning trying to have a relationship with OW and not making our D angry again). I told him that he is choosing our life because it's easier.
I'm just at a crossroads...I really don't know what to do. I think I made a REALLY big mistake letting him live here again even though he said that he wanted to be with me, because now if I make him leave again then my D is going to be doubly hurt...UGH!
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11
