emailing my former affair partner and telling her I love her more than anything or anyone in the world...
That is NOT closure...
That is called making a decision.
I'm sure others will disagree with me. And I haven't gone back to read your story like I probably should have. But honestly?
I would have told my spouse to leave under the circumstances you described. I would have told her that when and if she gets done playing with other people, she would know where to find me...assuming I'm still there of course.
What a phallus head...
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."