Not good Jon. Still no word from H and I was afraid to come on here because of the response above.....that was and still is my biggest fear.....H following in his Father's footsteps. What I don't get though is he bothers with his sons from a previous relationship he had before we met. I don't know if it is because they are boys, or he feels bad because he missed out on so much of them growing up, or because they are old enough to come to him as far as driving to see him and of course don't like me now either.....