mgm32, thanks for your comments. I think you're right about not retaking the marital bed. I had mentioned it about 6 weeks ago and was told "no way". It is a pride and ego-driven issue; I feel like I have been demoted in my own house. But the reality is that I'm giving my W as much space as I possibly can while still living in the same house, so until she decides to re-commit or move out I can stand it.

Doesn't mean I have to like it, though...

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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