What's the best first move? I don't want to press her but I also want to talk to her. I want her to understand she's the most important thing in my life.


Me: 33
W: 30
Two dogs (like kids to us)
M: 8 years (on August 8th)
Tog: 15 years
Emotional Affair by me/Sexting: Lasting two weeks
Discovered: 7/20/11