XYZ is here longer than I ever imagined....

[XYZ]

Until you TELL her there aren't boundaries. You seem to have an idea of when at MC. But to hold her to it when you haven't told her? Wussenstien start wearing a skirt. : )

I don't normally take too well to be called a Wussenstien, but I'll let it slide this once. How's that for a boundary? lol Kidding.

I agree. It's not fair to not tell her and then hold her accountable. Totally agree.

My problem is this: We don't live together. I try to make every interaction we have pleasant and upbeat. I don't start R talks. I've been "saving" my R issues for MC - viewing that as a venue where R talks are expected and, in fact, moderated. So, my quandary is do I initiate an R talk prior to MC or wait it out? It's also worth noting that W and I have very little time alone without kids and I don't want to email/text something like this. I actually think that too much email/text and too little talk contributed to our downfall in the first place.