I am most definitely working on myself.I'm giving 200% of my attention to my children and i'm sure my wife thinks it's a show but the truth is I miss my kids and I am having fun with them. what else can I do? something new this week, my wife told me she was very stressed about money and didn't think she could pay her rent this month. she asked me to help her out,I told her I would. I hope she conciders this a act of kindness and is not just using me. another thing she told me yesterday was that she had something to do on friday night but she said it 3 times.I know she was baiting me to ask her where she was going but I ignored her.Why is she doing this? she has been dead aganist reconciling. why is she trying to make me jealous? it's working, I didn't say anything but it's driving me crazy. How should I play this?