The way I see it, your W is going to obsess over this until you talk to her. I agree with Ken's sentiment, if you said you are going to talk then you should talk.

Originally Posted By: GAL Man

All I am looking to say is that

whilst I have always supported her in the last few years with her career, I meant what I said a couple of months ago. Basically I want to say that she has chosen this path we are on and that we are no longer a partnership, working for each other’s best interests and looking out and helping one another.

I have no problem taking the kids at any opportunity, but I want to be strong in that we are not a partnership anymore, she has to find her own way now. That is not being nasty or angry, just facts!


Yeah, you might have open up that can of worms. Can you state this in a way that *doesn't* come across nasty or angry? Can you keep your emotions in check?


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011