Until you TELL her there aren't boundaries. You seem to have an idea of when at MC. But to hold her to it when you haven't told her? Wussenstien start wearing a skirt. : )
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I just need to feel like I'm the most important.
How is that going to feel...how does she make you feel that way. Bravo Juliets every morning? Steak every night? Don't be vague with your boundaries, be specific, no wiggle room. The problem with this one? It is vague.
You need to feel...feel is the problem. You are responsible for how you feel period. She can influence it.
#2 pretty specific and pretty dam good. Alot of people have a problem saying NO. There are a few books about it, might be worth checking out.
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No effort towards working towards these? Yes
How long? Have a time frame, AND talk about it, encourage; guide; lead.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
