It tears me up because she was saying all the things I needed to hear in past tense last night. She would never tell me I’m the most important thing to her and be affectionate. I know she is filled with rage right now but where was the passion before the anger. I know there is no easy answer. I just hate myself for hurting her like this. All of the men are garbage in her life and I just proved to be another one.


Me: 33
W: 30
Two dogs (like kids to us)
M: 8 years (on August 8th)
Tog: 15 years
Emotional Affair by me/Sexting: Lasting two weeks
Discovered: 7/20/11