and here I sit a little bit baffled/bemused.

How can you be piecing if there are no boundaries. I am asking myself, and I remember that my experience does not mean everyones.

To be honest, it never occurred to me that you might not have them.

Not how much you can take or suckup.

But is there a line you have TOLD HER about, that if she crosses you are done? In most cases it is about an affair, the OM/OW, contact...stuff like that. Not all cases.

A Boundary is an non-negotiable deal breaker.

Do you have any of those?



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet