and that I believe based on what we still have we could rebuild something better that would last
While that is true, it is like "I love you".
You sayingthat reminds them that they don't feel that way...right now.
With a very similar conversation with our kids...
We told them that "We weren't sure we wanted to be married right now." It was a bit more honest without pointing fingers.
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Maybe it hasn't been long enough yet...or maybe she's truly just done.
Out of those two choices? Lets go with the one where you continue to keep up these changes you like; the first one.
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I'm not sure how to proceed with LRT...we're still getting along great...
Soooooo, why LRT then?
Consider this time FREE MARKETTING, your sales pitch is your deeds and actions. When you LRT, she isn't going to see it as often. Sell yourself now, best face, without you wearing ballons, and signs and saying "Hey? Just curious but have you noticed HOW MUCH I have CHANGED?!?!"
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
