Its my life

[GAL Man]

Phone conversation

W - Hi, is everything OK
M - Yeah fine thanks
W – What did you want to talk to me about
M – W, I dont really want to talk over the phone, I would rather talk face to face
W – Is everything OK?
M – Everything is fine, but I don’t want to talk whilst driving, plus I would rather talk to you in person
W – I am really worried now, can you not tell me now
M – Sorry, Its hard to concentrate in the car, what time will you finish having your hair done tonight, we could talk then

W – about 7.30/8.00
M – Ohh sorry, I am going out at 7.30pm and won’t be back till 9.30, so will talk on Sunday
W – I don’t want to wait until Sunday, I am really worried now, you know what I am like, can you tell me now
M – Sorry, I am on the motorway and it is difficult to concentrate
W – Can you call me when you get back tonight then
M – OK

Within the next half hour I have received two missed calls and a vm from W saying

Hi, don’t know if you can cancel your plans tonight to let me know what you want to talk about, or you can phone me, I don’t know if I will have the time on Sunday to talk face to face, OK, let me know, bye.

Now W is collecting the kids Sunday, so she will have loads of time.

Now thoughts on that convo, IDK, I told her everything was fine and sounded happy, so I can only think she is worried what I am going to say about us, maybe W thinks I am going to tell her I have a girlfriend, IDK

After not turning up for bowling and saying I didn’t remind her I think (and a couple of people have said the same) that she was messing me about and trying to get me to ask her to come (i.e. me chase her) so I have been wanting to contact W today, but have resisted, and carried on the path I have been going down……… until this

All I am looking to say is that

whilst I have always supported her in the last few years with her career, I meant what I said a couple of months ago. Basically I want to say that she has chosen this path we are on and that we are no longer a partnership, working for each other’s best interests and looking out and helping one another.

I have no problem taking the kids at any opportunity, but I want to be strong in that we are not a partnership anymore, she has to find her own way now. That is not being nasty or angry, just facts!

Has this now built up into overkill, in that this is all I was going to say?

Should I cancel the call, and say doesn’t matter etc?

Can of worms!!!!!!!