Advice needed, I think I have opened a can of worms
W emailed me lunchtime to say hi and to ask for more dates to swap for the kids due to work.
This is for W to go into Europe and set some stuff up, and would be great for her.
Background About 2 years ago in an argument W said that she resented my career and that she didn’t have one. So over the past couple of years wife has progressed this with my full support.
One job was hell for her, was in tears most days and left within a month, but I supported her through it as families do. She then took another job in another town and travelled daily, but after a year the driving got too much for her (she became very tired and irritable etc) so she got a job in our town, this has turned out to be her dream job and has progressed in the short time W has been there. I have always been supportive and acknowledged this with W.
Anyway
I sent her the following reply by email
Hi just in car now so can not reply, just put phone on charge (it did actually go out of charge)
Should be OK, need to check, but
I think we need to talk
W replied straight back with
What do you want to talk about? I can call you at 4.30pm in the car
I picked up this reply at 3.50pm, and then W called me at 3.51pm (she couldn’t wait till 4.30pm) and conversation like in the next post:
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
