Thanks, everyone, as always...jb, your reference to "Groundhog Day" made me laugh. It is very weird how the history is repeating itself.
Good. I think we all need an occasional laugh.
Originally Posted By: greenblue90
Just remember be her rock. Where she swerves all over the road, drive along her in a straight line ready to help her if she crashes. If she does remember it's not your fault, and don't let her blame you for it. Don't be confrontational just let her make her choices and follow her actions. Let her see the damage she is doing to both her families and herself on her own.
This is really hard to do sometimes, but it's very necessary.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
It is remarkable how this miserable situation has allowed me to cultivate and grow relationships with my family, friends and myself that I had previously been neglecting, and to plant new ones with new people. I wish I could take this feeling and inject it into the other newcomers here who think there is no hope in what is happening to them.
^^^ I'll second that. I have built a lot of new relationships I would never have built if it hadn't been for my situation.
