Well now my H is saying that I am blowing it out of proportion. He didnt leave because of the OW and that is what I think now according to him. He is saying he is seeing several OW right now and not just her he has no feelings for her. I feel so much better now. So all the work i have been doing he notices and all the apologizing for my part and discussing what went wrong for two months was worthless.
He didnt hear a thing.. He is just covering up his A I think.. I told him today we still dont have to get a D we can work on things (stupid on my part) he just sat there and didnt say anything.
I think that LRT is just that an LRT no matter what comes out of it. There is a chance that you could find out about OW or they could start with OW you just dont know. I think you have to be okay with the consequences no matter what.
______________________________________ H:32 W: 35 M- 11 Tog- 13 D-5 S-9 Sep. June 5th Bomb 6/27/11 OW Discovered on July 18th and admitted.... Divorced 11/22/2011 Ex Engaged to OW Jan. 2012