Thanks Irish, MHL and Lorie.

Irish, I too can look in the mirror and know that I stood and did everything I could. W is not the same person right now and I do not want the person that she is. Will "other version" return? God, I hope so, but time will tell.

MHL, the interview went great. I've secured a 2nd interview on 8/1. I almost hope that I don't start right away because my "formal" mediation is set for 8/10. I hope it doesn't interfere with the job.

Lorie, I am detaching. A lot easier said than done though. My biggest problem right now is just the disbelief of it all. Still can't get over how someone can change so drastically. I really do believe that it is a serious mental disorder. Weird stuff indeed.

Thanks everyone and HAPPY LITTLE FRIDAY!

I think I might kick it by the pool today with some tunes. Almost makes me wish that I was still a drinker.

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13