Awesome Bill, thanks. Man, do I agree..especailly the newcomer comment.
PEI-my heart goes out to you. Especially, when I see the little kids' ages. I have four and I honestly tear up when I see others with the little kids. Much empathy to you and yours.
Where I struggle now is feeling good about GALing, dark/dim, etc. and lately, w really seems to want to engage more each time we exchange kids and see the look in her eyes that I know is for real. So confusing for me to deal with. It's like she wants me to figure something out. I can't figure out why she's so much nicer now compared to spring with all the venom spewed.
Anyone else vacilate between letting go and spouse wanting to communicate more? Loaded question, I know, but fear WAW looks at dark of me being distant again and same behavior.
PEI- yes, the paradox is interesting, isn't it. I copied and pasted your learned comments into a word doc. for later use. Thank you. So many Angels here, truly.
