Can I save my marriage? (long; please be patient)

[MadeToSucceed]

Do what works, do not do what does not work, like the books and good peps here say

Say to yourself over and over to start believing it, “no matter what happens I can handle it”

Real sound info all around. I especially like the last part. For whatever reason, I just continue to beat up on myself and I have got to stop doing that. My mom used to tell me there are enough people who will kick you in life when you're down, no use in kicking yourself.

I've been through things in the past that, at the time, I felt were the hardest thing I'd ever been through and yet I came out on the other side of it and I'm still here. This thing won't break me.