Chances,

Welcome to the boards...

After reading your posts, I want to say first that you sound like you are in a very good place...

As far as MLC...

Unfortunately, there can be more than one crisis period in someone's life...

Many of us don't like the term MLC because it puts the thought that there is some specific age at which this happens...

A life crisis really is simply a life crisis and can happen at any point in time, usually with some sort of trigger...

So that is the not so great news smile

IF it is a MLC, only you can determine that...

Read the resource threads in MLC, find an intro post by Cadet in that forum (he may end up popping up here, always surprises with him smile )...

There is tons of good information on it.

Please tell us a little more about your situation with your H...

I don't believe I actually saw any mention of a "bomb"...

Keep reading and posting...

There is a great support system here.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox