Tad - aim sitting here reading what you wrote about what she said - basically same script from my xh. Here's what I believe - she can "feel" all of those things at one point or another - but the REAL truth is what she ACTS upon. I never FELT in love 24/7n- but ere was never a moment that I was not "all in" my marriage. What I believe is that all this is a choice. I can choose to act or react one way or I can choose to act or react another. Both actions cause consequences - good and bad. What can YOU live with@? I know that xh vise what he did - I chose my path. Those choices did not complement each other. But I can look myself in the mirror and validate I was faithful to my values and beliefs. That has to become the most significant reality in my life.
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time
