Can I save my marriage? (long; please be patient)

[MadeToSucceed]

Are there any successful stories of H's who had W's have an affair, file for D and the H was able to successfully DB? Preferably I'm trying to find some stories with no kids. The reason I say this is as tough as I'm sure it is, it seems like the people with kids still HAVE to have some interaction with their S and as a result, the S is able to see what they're missing at times and have some involvement. In my sitch, no kids means no real reason for her to contact me. And she doesn't. Just trying to figure out how to DB while thousands of miles away and only communicating via text.