The only problem with ex's ow is that she works for him. He is not suppose to have any type of relationship with his employees. I think she has threatened if he leaves her she will pursue sexual harrassment charges and get him in trouble. Their relationship is very controlling on both parts. I think my ex is so confused and bewildered regarding how he got in this situation.

It is what it is.... It just has to play out.


I believe now more than ever that relationships cannot be built on deception and cheating. It just does not work. If they stay together they will be miserable.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11