I see as us more as two cars on the same road. I think she wants to end up in the same destination as me. Let's call it happily ever after. We just can't seem to agree on what route to take to get us BOTH there together. I want to sit down with a map and plan the route out. (a very guy thing to do). She seems to want to take a quick look at the routes in person (without necessarily taking them) until she finds one she wants to take.
I decided to put my map away and wait to see what route she wants to take. If I think it's a route I like or I can live with, then I'll join her. If it's not I'll just have to take my own separate route.
All I know is that I want to get to the destination together. I just hope she picks a good route we can both enjoy.
I could on the other hand "throw her on the bus" and drive myself, but if I do that she'll just try to run away at the next gas stop. In other words go WAW.
Like many have said before I can't make her decisions for her.
