Hey 9 Sorry for coming in late to the 2x4 party. I was at my own party getting smacked for my mistakes.
Well I too pushed my W too hard on something she wasn't ready to discuss. So hard in fact that she went WAW again. She no longer is WAW but a months worth of work seems to have evaporated in a day. Despite not wanting to leave my W took off her band again and is sleeping in the couch. All because I pushed too hard during piecing.
Give her space man, let her come to you. If a conversation seems to not have immediate resolution, table it and visit it later. Much later. I know you want your M back but look at me I actually made things worse, and we both have to work that much harder because of it.
Remember don't let her blame you for her lows, and most importantly don't be the actual cause of them!!!
