YAH I appreciate the optimism, but the ring I got her actually wasn't fitting before because of the weather so she had been wearing another on on her ring finger. The fact she didn't wear it the night after the fight, tells me she is still harboring some resentment. Furthermore she never made it to bed, last night. So while she is trying to not pick a fight, she's not exactly happy either.
Either way I expect this, I just hope it doesn't last long. Based on what I have seen it will take an event to get her to wear her band and move back into bed. I think I know her enough to know that time alone won't heal those wounds.
That being said we still don't know what the terms of our M are. Not sure if she knows what she wants the terms to be. Me being a guy my method is to lay down all the options and see what we can live with, and compromise. She on the other hand I can tell is trying to live through the options and seeing what will work for her.
I guess I'm getting to the point where I don't care anymore and will just let her see where she wants this to go. Based on her actions and words I can tell the idea is interesting to her, but she is still unsure. So I guess I need to back down and see what she does, hopefully it'll be something we can live with.
