The red shoes comment is priceless. But I'm curious... if you wear them, do you have to share the car with others?
You are gaining perspective Tad. You are seeing the craziness. You are seeing that she is not the person you loved but rather something/someone else. I can tell you I heard almost every bit of those things word for word at some point so far. If it helps.
Good luck!
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."