Thanks for your thoughts. I feel I have done everything wrong throughout this whole process over the last few months. From calling her, texting her repeatedly, begging and crying to her, even going to her family/friends to talk some sense into her. She probably has absolutely no respect for me now. Then I tried to have no contact with her, and I would write her a letter expressing my love for her, and still nothing. She seems to have been planning this a long time and is pushing her lawyer to move forward quite quickly on property settlement, even though we can't divorce until February 2012. I don't know what to do next and what my move should be. I have spoken to Chuck, a coach from here, and he told me the next steps from the LRT, but I feel like it's too late and I won't get a chance to implement them, as she wants as little contact with me as possible.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011
