Originally Posted By: lifejustgothard2
Seems like every day this sitch is just in my face!!


It's not just a feeling, it IS in your face everyday....

Right up to the point that you don't allow it to be in your face every day.


Originally Posted By: lifejustgothard2

I am GAL. I have had NC for over 21 days but have lost count cause I am GAL!! smile


Day 500 and....something ?


Originally Posted By: lifejustgothard2

I just wonder when these kids will see their dad. Maybe never.



Those relationships are not yours to fix either..

I think the line here is...

It is not your job to repair their relationship, it is your job not to further damage their relationship.........( thanks Grace )




Originally Posted By: lifejustgothard2
Really hard to be in public because some days I wonder is that OW every where I look. So sad.


What if she is ?

How should that affect your daily life ?

Would you treat her any different if you did know ?

She is not the cause of your marriage failing, that part is owned by only 2 people..

Your husband isn't the one here posting, so this is up to you right now.

What part did you play in that breakdown ?