OnMyWay: to the next phase.

[OnMyWay]

Fascinating, keepyerchinup. Thanks for posting. Our sitches do indeed sound very similar.

One difference is the attraction between us has stalled. I'm fine with that as I, too, have discovered that there are lots of other women in the world for me to interact with. It's kind of exciting, in a way. I'm having fun!

With regards to WAW, I've been on a major pull back. I know it is beginning to frustrate her, but that's not really my problem. Mine is GAL. Part of that is putting myself in a position to finally move on from all this madness. She had stated that she doesn't want to talk D, but that doesn't mean she wants to talk M either. Right now she's trying to be a cake-eater. She's holding us hostage in this limbo state. I'm not good with that any longer.

To counter it, I've begun moving in a definitive direction. I've packed some of the stuff she left behind and began fixing the house the way I want it. I mentioned that I wanted to do our D papers next month, so that come January, we will be ready to file quickly. I also removed her name from the rest of the household bills, which really ticked her off, which I see but don't understand - after all, she's getting exactly what she asked for - it's called divorce.

So for now, I continue my push back. I'm feeling stronger every day. I feel good about where I am. It would be nice to save this thing, but it's not a requirement for my own personal happiness. life goes on.