I think maybe you are looking at what was lost instead of what was gained...
A good friend of mine and I talked of this not too long ago...
That it is okay to admit that you missed what once was, and to not cheat the memories that had long since been rewritten....
To dismiss what was once a pretty dammed good thing, without giving it the proper perspective would make us no different than the batchitt crazy people we lamented about here are, or have become...
It is okay to admit that we miss those times, and that those times were good times in our life.
What it is NOT okay to do however....is to think that our time here, or DBing was a waste of our time, or best efforts.
Focusing on the past for too long, will allow us to become stuck in what once was, instead of recognizing the steps we have taken to rebuild our new lives looking forward....
Take the time to change your focal point and you will see new results...
