Don't know where I am

[angel61]

Hey Harrier, your W's words lead me to think that she isn't agreeing with the IC.

IC's I think are all about ME. Thats why I have stopped going to one.


On another note .... may I hijack a little?

J3B, XYZ..... I wonder if it works the same for women? Coz one reason I haven’t been posting to my sitch lately are the following:

1. I have been worried that I am starting to lose my love for H – even my physical desire. A month ago I was still initiating ML, now I just don’t feel the urge.

2. In spite of it, I am suddenly feeling happy and content, able to focus now on work, enjoying my time with D, thinking of projects for the home (D and I are redecorating, with H’s blessing, so this seems good in terms of long term stability)... Is this

So I have let sleeping dogs lie and continue to enjoy our “roommate” situation…..and maybe someday we could become “friends with benefits” again…..

Harrier, it always helps when you realize that other people have been down the path we are now on .... and turned their marriage around. Doesn't it give you hope?