DG, It really sux when the kids get hurt in our situations. I feel bad for your S10, and I definitely understand your frustration.

Was your text sent in anger? How much of a 180 is this for you? Is it possible your H could be testing you and expecting a particular response?

I would characterize this as situational anger, as opposed to the long term anger you had been harboring. I want to give you credit for your growth.

BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26