I agree about trying to not push my faith on her. It's tough but I know it is necessary.
Yes, I know it's tough. You know that if she were to have that foundation in place, the chances that everything else will come around are a lot greater.
Originally Posted By: mgm32
Of course this could be her just being excited about being back in Monaco but my mind is wondering if OM is going there since he asked her about it a month ago.
For YOU, you can't focus on this.
Originally Posted By: mgm32
The other tough part is she and I went there together last summer so there are the memories.
I can empathize with you on this one. I just took the family vacation a month ago without my W to the exact same place, condo, and bed that we stayed in last year. It's likely tough for her, too. She will probably never show you this though.
Originally Posted By: mgm32
Is there harm in me continuing the every-other-day contact if it's just in the form of "How are you doing?" and not R or M talk? She's been receptive thus far but the toughest part is while that kind of sparse communication is OK for her, it really isn't for me. I just feel like I'm sending out a questionnaire repeatedly and she's filling it in with responses but there is no depth to the convos unless I provide it.
It sounds like the contact is for you. You need to your own needs aside right now. You don't want to appear needy to her - it's unattractive. She needs the opportunity to miss you. Since she has filed for D, you're in LRT territory. You may benefit from taking a step back. JMO
