Originally Posted By: luvmyhubby
I found out this weekend my H has been having an affair and our counseling or seperation never had a chance. He noticed my changes and I even had started LRT. Its too late now.....

Ive been lied to and decieved in a way that took advantage of my dbing and attempts to have a good R with my H.

I dont even know what to do now.. I guess it is the LRT but because of the D that is impending. How does that work when you arent sure anymore?

How do you get rid of the worthless feelings you get after you find out about the OW?


LMH - That's exactly what happened to me, just 1.5 weeks ago, so I know how you feel. I felt lied to, made a fool of, and robbed - robbed of 5 weeks I could have been using to heal. For me, the anger about the OW was far outweighed by the anger about his deception. And I don't know how to get past that either.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11