Thanks - you guys are right - it's just masochistic to ask questions I know the answers to.
And I guess I can take some comfort in him actually respecting this boundary, even if he didn't respect our marriage.
I have a call with Jody in an hour, but I'm not sure what the point is - he's moving out, he's in love with her, they want to be together - so what's left to try and save?
Feeling low this morning. Maybe the call with Jody will help.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11